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Help Change AmericaTeam Change2018-02-18T11:44:17+00:00


America doesn’t have to be a country riddled with hatred, disrespect and violence, in fact it shouldn’t be.  It’s up to us to change her and we can  by choosing love and kindness as the basis by which we live our lives.  Life is a precious gift and all human beings deserve and want to be valued and treated with respect.  When we choose love and kindness as the foundation for our lives we strengthen the bond of humanity and our connection to people.

Respecting people means protecting people. It’s time for our leaders and politicians to quit talking and take action.  How many of our children have to be lost to school violence before they are willing to act. Demand that your Senators and House members take action to strengthen and require background checks, ban assault weapons and improve mental health programs in our schools. If your local and national leaders are not willing to take action vote them out of office and elect someone who cares enough to make a difference.

Think of kindness as your personal investment in the health and well being of humanity and America.

Can you imagine how different America would be if everyone chose kindness in all their relationships.  We can.

Our Goal

Our goal is to unleash the trans-formative power of love and kindness to change the face and heart of America. We seek to encourage all Americans to adopt love and kindness as the foundation for all their relationships.

What You Can Do

Make your voice heard by committing to a life grounded in love and kindness. Pledge that you will treat all people with kindness and respect and begin your walk to change America. Your choice will be instrumental in transforming not only your life but all the lives you touch and ultimately America. Demand that your elected officials make a stand against school violence by making your comments heard on this website. Help Change America will share your comments with our leaders and politicians with the hope that our message will begin to transform America and her government.

Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see!  Mark Twain

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Sandy Jennekens

I pledge to do all I can to help America become a country where kindness, compassion and respect are the rule and not the exception. A place where a warm smile, a polite thank you and words of encouragement are an everyday experience.


I pledge to be kind and respect everyone that I encounter to help change America.

Derrick Vick

I pledge to have and share the Fruit of the Spirit at home, at work, at church, to my neighbors and to my country: Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.

Caroline Wilson Ellison

I pledge to spread kindness every day through acts of love, forgiveness, patience, and compassion.

Jere Roberts

I love this.

Greg Winchester

What a great cause and message…Thank you Alan and Nora.
I pledge and choose to respect others and do my best to help those that are blinded by hate see the reasons to love one another. In addition, I pledge to remember that “some people are praying for the things we take for granted”.


I pledge to seek out more ways to show kindness every day. Our world needs us all to choose love and kindness, not division and hate.

Irene Wells

Even at times when I may not be “feelin” it, I pledge to CHOOSE to live from a place of kindness and respect for all. So simple, (not the same as easy always), so profound.

Ken & Sandi Lilley

We choose people not labels- we help & we show love to people in our path, friend or brand new friend, on a daily basis. We greet, we hug, we help, we sing & sign language all over at churches & nursing homes.

Cindi Bristol-Kerr

Always to respect and show kindness to everyone. To treat everyone the way I want to be treated as I want to be treated as I was taught. To go out of my way to help others.

Wanda Kelly Wallace

I saw this on the news this morning. Thank you for starting this as a reminder to all of us in these days when hate and defiance seems to become the normal. I believe LOVE should rule. I pledge to allow kindness to be my guide each day.


I pledge to volunteer to serve more people who have been marginalized in our society.

Wendy Wilson

I pledge to help make the world a kinder and gentler place by showing respect to others despite our differences.

Brook Minnock

I pledge to show kindness and respect to all people, even if I don’t agree with their thoughts or beliefs.

Lisa Hudson

My mother always told me to treat others how I would like to be treated. I pledge to listen to my mother.


I pledge to show kindness, love, and respect to all those around me.

Donna Mollenkopf

I pledge to treat others with kindness and respect so we can transform the world as people who care for all life.

Carolyn Winchester

What a wonderful gift! With this opportunity to help change America I hope my obituary will read
“she was a kind lady, thoughtful and respectful of all she came in contact with, regardless of race or creed, and she loved her country”.


I pledge to exhibit empathy and kindness to all my fellow man

Maggie Lears

I will ” scatter joy” and “throw kindness like confetti” with each person I meet knowing full well that we are all connected.

Greg Cochran

I pledge Kindness and humility in giving as well as receiving – receiving kindness and insight into my shadows so that I can be an agent of change. I am reminded of a Henri Nouwen quote: “Sometimes it is only in the eyes of the receivers that givers discover their gifts.”

Kathy Shaw

I pledge to treat others as I would like to be treated, with kindness and love.

Jane D

I pledge to treat others with kindness and respect regardless of nationality,color, race or sexual orientation. We are all God’s children and equal in his eyes. I pledge to help America be the country our ancestors fought and gave their lives for.

Tony Perry

I pledge to demonstrate kindness towards others in helping to make this country a clean ,friendly, healthy, and safe environment for all peoples to live.

Lisa T

I pledge to treat everyone with respect and kindness regardless of differences. I pledge not only to do this myself, but to teach my children these values as well.

Carlton Best srl

i pledge to be kind and help any one in need ! Race , Religion and creed will have no bearing on my commitment to kindness !!!

Charlitta Burruss

Recently, started small as a Minister and disabled but, during Street Ministry reaching out to the Homeless received some donations to start Operation Warm Blankets in Durham NC to give out only could afford 36 Blankets.
With a Big Heart Little Funds You Still Can Show LOVE.

Barbara - Durham NC

Peace, kindness and respect – I pledge to give to friends and strangers and my students I come in contact.

Karen Klein

I pledge to love & show kindness and respect for others. I want to make America a safe and happy place for future generations.


I pledge to choose kindness, respect and understanding